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ASK ANGELINA & A thought for the day.

By
Angelina Diana
on September 16, 2010 5:29 AM | | Comments (2)

Today.

An Affirmation

"Finding a space for you will attract and bring you to a new world....  Creation  and rediscovery of your unique self."- Angelina Diana

 

Dear Angelina

I am very upset. My boyfriend of 4 years, has left me. I am consumed with thoughts of what I did wrong. I did everything to please him. He was my life! What do I do. Does he have another person? Should I continue to try to get him back?

Thank you!

Dina

 

Dear Dina,

I am so sorry that you are upset. I wrote today's affirmation......for you....

I feel you need to rediscover your unique self! Everyone is unique. We sometimes misstep and lose ourselves  in a relationship.  We think if we do for someone and be everything that they need, that this will keep them connected to us. While we can do for those we love, we need to balance this and keep our desires, likes, even dislikes on the table of conversation.

Connection to those we love, especially in romance, is an interesting lesson here in the physical world. We look for someone who we are attracted to physically and for someone who has common likes.Some make the fatal error of molding their interests to their romantic figure to the point where they forget their own flow of enjoyment. Some get mesmerized even addicted to being everything that person needs them to be. In other words, being the ultimate people pleaser, will only cause heart ache in the end. Not balancing your needs in a relationship will actually break the connection that brought you together. Your unique self is what created the attraction to begin with! Sometimes we want love so much, and we afraid to lose love, we clam up and not express our passion, likes dislikes...ETC.  So balance is very important.

I sense you to be the ultimate people pleaser. You are in a tailspin because you are trying to get back to him and not YOU. You feel torn to call him because that is how you feel you will "get back to yourself" because you have identified him as "your life'. You lost your self by making his life the definition of who you are. When you think of your life without him, you feel empty. Right? Well it's time girlfriend to FILL that emptiness WITH YOU and what you LOVE. This is your unique self! This action will help you attract the right person.

 While you mourn the relationship, I want you to think of what positive things you have walked away with. Look for the gifts. They are there. I also feel you will be emerging with a stronger sense of you and that , my dear, is the best gift of all.

Also, as you get back to yourself.....

- Try to test the waters of discovering things you like to do. Get yourself out there, not to find someone but ....to find YOU.

- When you are ready to find a mate, honor yourself in the process by surrounding yourself with the things you like to do.

- Remember to laugh at the cuteness of your missteps, do not be hard on yourself,

-You, ultimately, are the only one that can give you the care you deserve and think of your unique self as someone who can send an energy of attracting the RIGHT person in your Life.

- The more you enjoy yourself and honor your passions...your unique self....you will see and have more chances of meeting the right person.

As far as contacting him, as a psychic and spiritual counselor, I can not tell you how to life you life, but I can say, contacting him has brings you to the energy of how much you think you have lost. This is a tailspin of emotional woe I want you to get out of. Contact...YOU instead....

I wish you all the best, life is an adventure.....time for you to get on the ride! Angelina Diana

 Angelina is a psychic (future) and a medium (otherside). You can learn more about her work at http://www.angelinadiana.com

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Ask Angelina- Are there different levels to the otherside?

By
Angelina Diana
on September 14, 2010 6:30 AM | | Comments (2)
 From Nancy ( Facebook)
 
Hi Angelina,

I've read that there are different levels on the other side, that those who cross over may have different frequencies of energy. Is this true? If so, do you hear from those only on some levels or can you hear from anyone?
Thanks,
Nancy
 
 
Hi Nancy,
 
  Thank you for your question. It is a great one! I may create some waves on what I think on this one.
 
I feel that levels or different frequencies are felt from the otherside as a measure  from the otherside to communicate their life lessons.  I do not feel that levels actually exist but I do believe that we have created this thought to express the amount or lack of lessons that a spirit has learned.
 
 The belief of having levels  is a thought that certain spirits belong in a certain place on the otherside because of how they lived their life. Some mediums might refer to the 2nd level or the 5th level.  A medium needs to be careful how they portray that to the person being read. When a medium says this during a session they are taking something non physical and trying to make it physical. Clients, when they hear this, might get a sense that they won't see their loved one unless they end up in the same level.    My philosophy is that  this thought is not an accurate portrayal of the otherside.
 
We can feel our loved ones who have crossed over because they bring lessons and spiritual growth with them when they make the transition. I feel levels or the FEEL of levels on the otherside  represent the growth and or lessons of the life they lived. But I do not feel they  are on literal on levels..  If this was true and because we all grow grow differently and spiritually. that would mean that we we end up on separate levels and not be connected to each other when we cross.  This is the one thing, I always feel from the otherside. We are all VERY much connected and have a single and  strong understanding connection. We are together.
 
This leads to the question of those that have lived bad lives and have done bad things. Are those spirits in the same place? Well. for example,  why does someone who committed murder get to be in the  same place as say, Mother Teresa? Some might feel that the murdered does not deserve to be on the same "level". 
 
I feel differently.
 
If we use that example of the murderer and Mother Teresa. Some mediums might feel them on different levels because the murderer and Mother Teresa certainly lived different lives and certainly obtained different amounts of spiritual growth. I  feel that those who have lived difficult or hard lives need to be in the light of those who lived a  life of grace. I feel those who struggled are embraced by the collective consciousness of the otherside.
 
Another reason  that I feel strongly that there are no physical levels.on the otherside is I have many clients that see me because they heard from another medium that their loved ones are on a certain level. Then the clients wants to know how they can achieve this level so they will be assured they see their loved one again. There are no levels. We are not separated. We stay connected.
 
I feel everyone on the otherside can connect  to us.  Their spiritual lessons good or bad do not affect this. Sometimes spirits are perceived as not as strong or quiet because they are trying to make us feel their personality or illness. We may perceive them as a weaker frequency but that does not mean they are on a "lower level" or are weak . They need to validate who they are. Those who have a gentle or quiet energy  are just as able to come through as spirits who come through strong willed.  I feel it is the INTENTION of the otherside that speaks to me. They have a sense or intention on why they need to come through. It is the job of a medium to honor that.
 
I hope this helps.
 
Thank you!
Angelina
 
 
 
 
 

 

By
Angelina Diana
on September 1, 2010 7:43 AM | | Comments (5)
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A WEB CONVERSATION WITH PSYCHIC MEDIUM ANGELINA DIANA

 

From time to time Psychic Medium Angelina Diana is invited to participate in web chats either on her own or with other mediums. What follows is one such chat. The names of those participating have been removed to respect their privacy.

(Q) = A question from a poster  (A)= Angelina's Answer

 

(Q) Do our loved ones who have crossed over ever stop sending us signs

(A) I believe that our loved ones stay connected to us and do send us signs. We need to be aware of their energy to receive them. IE There are radio waves all around us but until we have the antenna ( spelling?) of the radio on we cannot hear the songs.....

(Q) Is there some way to see them?

(A) Many people do report seeing their loved ones at the foot of their beds. That is usually after a dream state. SO I believe by understanding dreams, meditating and daydreaming we can see them.

(Q) Hello, I lost my wife after only a short marriage due to cancer. I have asked for signs, but not had any real responses that I know of. Does she have any message for me or do you have any advice as far as communication? Thank you for your time and I really enjoy these chat groups.

(A) I have a feeling your wife wants to thank you for the flowers and she is proud of the way you are handing the children. She seems to hear you when you are in the shower. She shows me a radio in the shower and jokes about your bad singing. She did have quite a sense of humor. She also said that she know you are proud of the way she fought her illness and wants you to hang up her holiday lights I hope this makes sense. She appreciates your strength now.

(Q) Thank you, Angelina Diana. Earlier today I had a strong aroma of carnations in my house, where there are no flowers right now. Was somebody communicating with me?

(Q) I appreciate your wonderful and inspiration talk. will I be taking away a lot of energy from the loved one in spirit if I continually ask for signs?

(A) I do not believe that we can take away energy from a spirit. I feel they are intact just as they are when they were in the physical. for example..If you did not want to do something that I asked you to do ...you just wouldn't do it. I feel spirit has an intention just like we do.

(Q) Yes you are right. After my dad died I really needed a hug and then I had a dream about him and I woke up remembering the best hug I ever received from him

(Q) What will happen regarding my career and what progress will be made,if any?..Thank-you and I appreciate this chance to be a part of a wonderful community and your site. Thank You!

(A) Hi Barbara I feel a creative flow with you. Almost going into real estate, buying ads and decorating. So either you are just buying a new home or that is your intention with career. I feel you have just learned a very valuable lesson in patience and had a disappointment about 6 months ago, please remember the lessons from that as that happened to teach you strength and communication. I hope this helps

(Q) My wife logged me on tonight...Tonight is the 1 year anniversary of my Mom's very short but very violent battle with cancer. my wife sees signs from my mom all the time, but I do not....is she not talking to me or am I missing them all???

(A) I feel that you might have had a different way your communicated with your Mom. She makes me feel that you are a right brained kinda a person. Things are either black or white and you have a hard time sleeping. She makes me feel that she is visiting you in your dreams. Please look for the graduation picture? Or some picture where someone is getting an award. She claims that there is an orb or a message there for you, I hope this helps

(Q) I would like to know if my mom is still around me. Can she hear my prayers when I speak with her? Is there anything that she would like me to know? I really miss her.

(A) Gloria , I am sorry for your loss. I to believe that Prayers are a form of communication and a straight pathway to your mom. She does hear them. Mom makes me feel like you had some That is a difficult thing medical decisions to make for her She is thanking the family for that. She is showing me a camper . She is very remembering a time before she past . she references the 3 girls in the family .She wants you to have great holiday and to remember her pie recipe that was handed down from her family I hope this helps "Just get some rest dear" is what I am hearing from her. She hands you a cup of tea

(Q) Hi- how soon after someone passes can you contact them in spirit?

(A) I feel right away. I have had an experience where I was reading someone and a spirit came through, the person getting the reading did not understand it, later they found out that person passed during the reading. djscincy© thank you very much

(Q) My husband passed in August - does he have any messages for me?

(A) He is proud of the way you are taking on his Common sense approach with things. He comes to me very math orientated. He wants you to be careful with your spending . He takes a credit card and shreds it. She says you are sleeping with his shirts and cannot part with one that he wore all the time??? Either he says you teased him about this one shirt that he would not get rid of. He gives me a feeling of impact to the chest and my head hurts. Did he have headaches in life? He has a very strong energy that is a difficult think exterior but the heart of a dear. You says he is doing okay but doesn't want you to think that he stays in the house. He says he follows you around the house and to the store. Did you buy him steak the other night and cook it??? I am smelling steak! He loved to eat. He sends you love and wants you to feel free to spray his cologne or some smell like cologne...

(Q) When a relative who has passed comes to you in your dreams, in a way that scares you, how can you turn that fear around?

(A) Great question! By taking the scary part and realizing that part is just a reflection of your physical life. I feel we have 3 kinds of dreams physical life dreams, visits from guides/ otherside and combination dreams. When we have a dream from a loved one and it scary , it is a combination dream...we are visiting them but them we let our physical life get in the way

(Q) My daughter was just married Saturday and her grandmother died this past April- there was a monarch butterfly following her all week. There was even one in wal-Mart that almost landed on her. then yesterday when we brought the newly weds to Bradley the monarch was right there again above her shoulder as we were saying goodbye in front of the airport. was it Gramma sharing in the week of her wedding?

(A) I would say yes but I would also send her a sign and ask her to show you more/ Like ask her why did you send a butterfly???? In other words. Continue the conversation.

(Q) please, do you have a message from my dad, today is the anniversary of his death.

(A) I am so sorry for your loss. He shows me a single rose. Did you get one for him? Is there a Larry or marry connection? Please know that your dad is okay

(Q) can a spirit get caught between plains? If so how do they cross over?

(A) Well there are many arguments about this question. I tend to take the science approach that the otherside is really this side. Meaning they are among us. I do not believe they get stuck, nor is there purgatory..

(Q) I feel like I am never alone is there a way you can find out who is with you?

(A) I think that maybe you might be feeling your guides. Also we are all a part of a soul group. You could be feeling grandparents or great uncles you have never met. The best thing to know is that they wont hurt you and they are with you to guide you and protect you. I love it when I sense a new guide. I will daydream ( meditate) and ask them to send me a symbol in my dreams or waking hours. Sometimes I will know that I have a problem in my life and feel a guide and sense that they are in my path to help me. Bottom line when you ask for help and help comes to you in a kewl way ...know it is the otherside helping you.

(Q) How do you feel about using crystals?

(A) I guess it depends on what you mean by use but I feel crystals have energy hold energy and is a great psychic Tool.

(Q) I have not had any signs or dreams from my fiancé' for almost 2 years now. He passed 3 ½ years ago. Could this mean that he has reincarnated? Thank you

(A) I personally do not feel that reincarnation happens that quickly. Although there are some great books by Brain Weiss that talk about twin souls ...I still feel we spend time here on this earth plain to learn and bring our work to the otherside to complete our work. I am sorry you are not hearing from him. Please try to daydream and send him a message. See if you can try to ask questions before you go to bed. I hope this helps

(Q) Some very interesting points have been brought to my attention tonight. Thank you so much Joanne & Angelina Diana.....My sister was recently diagnosed with cancer. Any advice on how I can help her? Will she be okay? Thanks again.

(A) Hi Rita I am sorry that your sister is going through her medical issue. Somehow I am feeling you come from a family of strong women! Strong women with A LOT of faith. Is mother's mom passed? I feel a grandmother here. It sounds like she is speaking a Slovak language. She is praying and sending her faith to you. I wish the best.

(Q) Have you ever connected with someone that has crossed that has taken their own life? Is someone who committed suicide okay on the other side? Are they finally happy and at peace? Or is it truly the worse sin you can commit and you are damned forever?

(A) I am sorry for your loss. I believe that there is redemption for every one on the otherside I feel that loved ones who have lived a troubled life are embraced by the light even more...don't they need it more. I DO NOT ( screaming not intended) subscribe to the belief that those who take their life are send to a darker place. That just doesn't make sense to me.

(Q) Three yrs ago in Aug. 04 my brother was murdered. After his passing I could smell his cologne in my home. I once got up and seen the kids big ball on the foot of their bed when they were sleeping. I miss him very much and feel alone now because I have no real contact with the rest of my family. Could you let him know that he is loved and missed by me?

(A) I am sorry for your loss. I feel our loved ones know how we feel because they have a telepathic connection to us because of the bond of love we share. So your brother knows you miss him and love him.

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