ASK ANGELINA & A thought for the day.

Today.

An Affirmation

"Finding a space for you will attract and bring you to a new world....  Creation  and rediscovery of your unique self."- Angelina Diana

Dear Angelina

I am very upset. My boyfriend of 4 years, has left me. I am consumed with thoughts of what I did wrong. I did everything to please him. He was my life! What do I do. Does he have another person? Should I continue to try to get him back?

Thank you!

Dina

Dear Dina,

I am so sorry that you are upset. I wrote today's affirmation......for you....

I feel you need to rediscover your unique self! Everyone is unique. We sometimes misstep and lose ourselves  in a relationship.  We think if we do for someone and be everything that they need, that this will keep them connected to us. While we can do for those we love, we need to balance this and keep our desires, likes, even dislikes on the table of conversation.

Connection to those we love, especially in romance, is an interesting lesson here in the physical world. We look for someone who we are attracted to physically and for someone who has common likes.Some make the fatal error of molding their interests to their romantic figure to the point where they forget their own flow of enjoyment. Some get mesmerized even addicted to being everything that person needs them to be. In other words, being the ultimate people pleaser, will only cause heart ache in the end. Not balancing your needs in a relationship will actually break the connection that brought you together. Your unique self is what created the attraction to begin with! Sometimes we want love so much, and we afraid to lose love, we clam up and not express our passion, likes dislikes...ETC.  So balance is very important.

I sense you to be the ultimate people pleaser. You are in a tailspin because you are trying to get back to him and not YOU. You feel torn to call him because that is how you feel you will "get back to yourself" because you have identified him as "your life'. You lost your self by making his life the definition of who you are. When you think of your life without him, you feel empty. Right? Well it's time girlfriend to FILL that emptiness WITH YOU and what you LOVE. This is your unique self! This action will help you attract the right person.

 While you mourn the relationship, I want you to think of what positive things you have walked away with. Look for the gifts. They are there. I also feel you will be emerging with a stronger sense of you and that , my dear, is the best gift of all.

Also, as you get back to yourself.....

- Try to test the waters of discovering things you like to do. Get yourself out there, not to find someone but ....to find YOU.

- When you are ready to find a mate, honor yourself in the process by surrounding yourself with the things you like to do.

- Remember to laugh at the cuteness of your missteps, do not be hard on yourself,

-You, ultimately, are the only one that can give you the care you deserve and think of your unique self as someone who can send an energy of attracting the RIGHT person in your Life.

- The more you enjoy yourself and honor your passions...your unique self....you will see and have more chances of meeting the right person.

As far as contacting him, as a psychic and spiritual counselor, I can not tell you how to life you life, but I can say, contacting him has brings you to the energy of how much you think you have lost. This is a tailspin of emotional woe I want you to get out of. Contact...YOU instead....

I wish you all the best, life is an adventure.....time for you to get on the ride! Angelina Diana

 Angelina is a psychic (future) and a medium (otherside). You can learn more about her work at http://www.angelinadiana.com

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